Keluarga Sakinah dan Pergeseran Nilai Relasi Generasi Z dalam Perspektif Pertukaran Sosial
Keywords:
Sakinah mawaddah rahmah, Generation Z, social exchange theoryAbstract
This study aims to analyze the shifting meanings of sakinah, mawaddah, and rahmah (KSMW) within young Muslim families of Generation Z from the perspective of social exchange theory. The research employs a qualitative literature-based approach by reviewing academic publications, including journal articles and scholarly books published between 2019 and 2025. The data are analyzed using a thematic critical method to identify changes in values, relational orientations, and communication patterns among young families in the digital era. The findings indicate that the concept of KSMW has undergone a significant transformation from hierarchical and patriarchal family relations toward more egalitarian relationships that emphasize role equality, emotional exchange, and reciprocal benefits between spouses. Generation Z interprets sakinah as psychological well-being and emotional stability, mawaddah as functional love mediated by digital communication, and rahmah as rational and contextual collective empathy. From the perspective of social exchange theory, KSMW values are enacted through principles of relational justice, emotional efficiency, and reciprocity, without abandoning the spiritual and normative foundations of Islam. This study concludes that the reinterpretation of KSMW by Generation Z reflects the adaptation of Islamic family values to contemporary socio-cultural and digital dynamics, while also offering a new conceptual space for the development of studies on contemporary Muslim families.
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